Respect.

You can't respect somebody else until you've learned to respect yourself.

Woody Hayes

I remember passing Coach Hayes in my dorm one night after dinner in Park Hall.  He stopped walking, smiled, looking me right in the eye and asked, "How are your studies?" We talked for only a few minutes, but I left him feeling like I was invincible.  It was his constant eye contact and the sincere tone of  in his voice.